Letter to My 2nd Husband During Difficult Times

Letter to My 2nd Husband During Difficult Times

Letter to My 2nd Husband During Difficult Times: A letter to my husband is an important document that can save you both a lot of grief later on if things go wrong in your marriage and if the relationship breaks down.

Whether you are in a good or bad relationship, there will always be difficult times that challenge your commitment, love, and dedication to each other. No matter how difficult the situation is, the most important thing is to survive the bad times and look forward to better days.


Letter to My 2nd Husband During Difficult Times

  • My feelings for you are so strong that they carry me through some of the most difficult times. I know we will make it through this. Our love is true and pure. Thank you for being in my life!


  • I love you and have been absent from my life because of tough situations in my life. Please allow me to return to my life. I’ll give you a perfect tomorrow to make up for the past.


  • I have loved you from the moment we first talked; from the early years, to now… You are my soulmate, my rock, and my inspiration. Thank you for always believing in me and loving me like no other. I am hoping with all my heart that things will get better again soon…


  • I am writing to you to tell you that I have been having a hard time dealing with the way things are going. I want you to know that I am going to do everything I can to try and make things better again. Maybe I come off like a drama queen, but my intentions are good. This letter is my way of starting over. So much has happened this past year, too much. We’ve been married for three years and it feels like we’ve been together.


  • I know that you are going through a lot right now. I just want you to know that I am here. I don’t judge you, I love you and will be there for you through everything.


  • We are on the verge of disaster… We used to be so happy and it was an amazing time in my life. I wish that we could go back in time and reclaim what we had, instead of letting it slip through our fingers. I hope that one day you’ll realize that I am still that same girl. I still have the same dream. All I want is to be your wife again and give you the family you always wanted.


  • I know it isn’t easy being married to a military wife and I understand why you have been angry. I hope these words will help you. I love you and am thankful that you are in my life. There is nothing that can break our love, only bend it.


  • Every night I fall asleep next to you and every morning I wake up next to you. And I can’t remember a time that was any better. Despite the hard times, we get through them together. When our eyes meet, my heart skips a beat. When you smile at me it’s like heaven. I love you, with all of my heart.


  • I know that I have said it before but, I really do love you. Our marriage has not been easy, but as time passes I realize that you are the best thing that has ever happened to me.


  • I just want to let you know I’m still here for you. We are not perfect, but we are always better together. I love you!


  • First off, I just want to say that no matter what happens I am so thankful for the time we spent together. Secondly, I know you will find your way through this rough patch and be okay. You went from my husband to my friend and I appreciate you for being there for me in the ways that only a spouse can.


  • If I could have scripted the most perfect husband for myself, it would have been you. You made me feel so special each and every day. We conquered the world together. We loved, we fought, we struggled, and then grew from it all. Yes, life at times can be complex and decisions can be hard to make. But once we got through that hurdle, I saw how strong our bond was and how great of lovers we were.


  • I thought of you today, and I wanted to take just a moment to wish you a wonderful day. I couldn’t help but reflect upon the times we have spent together and what an amazing husband and father you are. I am so incredibly grateful for who you are and the role you have played in my life, not only as a husband but as a friend and confidant. You truly are one of the very best parts of my life, and I am so happy that we found


  • We haven’t been married very long, but already I feel that you are my soul mate. You bring out the best in me. You loved me at my worst and were there when I needed someone the most. Life is complicated enough but when we get through this we will have a lifetime of happiness ahead of us.


  • I know I haven’t written much since we moved, but there hasn’t been much to say. We made the decision to move for a reason and I knew we would be ok even if you didn’t like it. What matters most is that we are together and I hope once you settle in and begin to enjoy yourself that you will be happier with your work.


  • I love you. I know that may not mean much coming from me, but it is honestly true. I want to always be with you, be a part of your life and look out for you. I want to be the mother of your children and spend the rest of my life with you.


  • You may not be able to help me through these difficult times, but I want you to know that I do love you. To be honest with you, the feelings of joy and happiness I get when I look into your eyes are something that words cannot convey. For me, life would not be the same without you and your love has changed my world.


  • I want to help support you and be your rock during the difficult times ahead. You are the most important person to me in the world. You are my best friend, my hero, and today my husband. Let’s get through these hard days ahead together. I love you with all my heart!


  • Over a year has passed since your passing, enough time for the holes of my pain to mend, yet no amount of time will ever lessen my incessant longing for you. In our lives together we accomplished so many things but above all were two very simple things that I loved most about us.


  • It has been such a long time since we’ve talked. I don’t know if it caused you pain or if you are even aware that things ended. It wasn’t supposed to be like this and maybe in another place, another time…it could have been different. But for now, my heart is filled with a new love and I cannot regret the life we built together.


  • My dearest husband. I love you more than I ever knew was possible. Our marriage is the best thing that’s happened to me. I am so lucky to have you in my life, despite all our troubles and problems. We will make it through this, as we have everything else. Our love will always be strong enough to endure anything…


  • I wanted to take the time to tell you to thank you. Thank you for being a positive force in my life. I know our relationship has been hard, and things will only get harder but that won’t stop us from fighting for this. Pass me the tissues…I love you.


  • I am so fortunate to be able to spend each day with you. I hope that I can make your life better in every way possible. You truly make my life complete, and I know that you are the man I want to spend the rest of my life with.


  • My life is not the same without you. I miss your warm kisses, tender hugs, and the beautiful words you speak. I hold them, dear, to my heart and cherish them until the day you come back home.


  • I am writing this in hopes that you will read it and understand how much I love you. We have been through so much together, both the good and the bad. I thank God every day that you are my husband because we work together to make a great life, and with your help, I will make you a great wife. Thank you for being there for me when needed, a shoulder to lean on, an ear to listen. Thanks for being that guiding light in any situation and being my true friend.


  • My love, I am grateful every day that you are in my life. I am sorry that we are a world apart right now, but know this … everywhere I go, I carry you with me in my heart.


  • I love you and your family. Thanks for keeping in touch after the divorce. I know that it felt awkward and I appreciate your effort.


  • I am writing this letter in hopes to get a grasp on my thoughts and not break down in tears. I have witnessed so many amazing things through the years with you, but I just don’t know how much longer I can stand by your side and watch you destroy yourself. It eats away at me every time but I can’t leave you because you are mine and no man will ever love you more than me. I swear it hurts more than anything.


  • The last few days and weeks have been difficult for both of us. We’ve said some things we wish we could take back, that we didn’t mean to hurt each other’s feelings. The truth is, this doesn’t make me love you any less. I still adore you, but life has thrown us both a curveball. I want you to know that I understand the pressures of work must be intense and stress levels are high.


  • I’ve had the great pleasure of being married to you for the last 5 years. I am so grateful every day that you are in my life. You bring me love and peace and joy, but also happiness and hope. I love you more than words could ever express!


  • It has never been a question of love. In fact, I loved you more than anyone I’ve ever known. When we were together, the feeling was incredible. It was beyond desire; we were so deeply in love. But somewhere along the way, that seemed to wither away and die…


  • I know sometimes it feels like you married a robot. I give you all the love I possibly can – but am just not wired that way. This is my skillset, not my feelings – and it makes you feel like I’m not physically/emotionally with you. Does this help explain things?


  • I had to write something to you to tell you how much I love you and how sorry I am. You’ve been a very good husband and father. I don’t understand what’s happening in our lives right now, but is my fault.


  • I love you. I miss you. I want you. No matter what, when we are together in person or through a message, my heart beats faster and there’s that sparkle in the air. You are such a wonderful man, and when I close my eyes I see our future together.


  • You are the love of my life. I love you and I don’t know what I would do without you, I can’t even imagine. You make me feel beautiful, captivating, and empower me to be all I can be. Your love is endless and as you hold me, my heart will always belong to you. Thank you for being in my life every day brighter than a star in the sky!


  • Baby, I’m not sure if you realize this, but you have been my rock since the day that we met. Seeing you enjoy life the way that you do warms me inside and out. It’s hard to see you gone so much, but it only makes me hungrier for you at home. I love you always and forever sweetie.


Letter to My Husband During Difficult Times

  • I would like to thank you for everything you have done in your business. I know that it was a really hard decision to separate, but I think it is the best choice we can make, considering the circumstances. Please understand that I will always love you and our daughter and wish you the best of luck in your new company.


  • Even though this is an unromantic, purely functional letter and all I want to tell you is that I love you and may have to put things on hold for a while, I also wanted to thank you for all you’ve done for me. You’ve been more than my best friend and partner – sometimes you’re like a father to me, sometimes a mentor. I hope we will have many more years together.


  • We have been married for almost 5 years now. I can’t believe it has been that long. So much has happened since the day we first met. Just when I think life couldn’t get any worse, it does. This hurts me more than anything. Please don’t give up on us because I will never give up on you.


  • I may not be perfect and I may make mistakes sometimes…but I will always be honest with you. You must trust me if the relationship is going to work. Above all, I love you completely, dearly, deeply, and truly.


  • I miss you, baby. I miss holding you by my side, your kisses, and our peaceful times together. It breaks my heart that we’re apart. I need you here with me. I want us to make things work once again. I will be here for you if you need me. Love Always, Your Wife Jenny


  • As a wife and mother, I feel that you are underappreciated as well as greatly misunderstood. When you come home from a hard day’s work you need help with dinner, bath time for the kids, laundry, cleaning, and other daily routine stuff. You long for simple conversation yet no one visits or calls to catch up. Your paycheck doesn’t go far enough to satisfy all your needs and the things your family wants.


  • You are my knight in shining armor. No matter how dark the world is you make everything brighter. I never want to be without you, we will go through anything together. Our bond is stronger than ever and I love you so much!


  • You were the first man I ever loved. You took my hand so gently in yours and you kissed me so gently on the cheek before we walked down the aisle. You are the man I abandoned my family for, I loved you so much. Even though we’re no longer together, I never want to forget about all of our memories.


  • I have tried to be patient with you and to understand your point of view and your new life. I have given you a few months, but now I’ve decided that our marriage is beyond repair. Despite my best efforts and intentions, it has become clear that we no longer share the same values or goals. We disagree on almost everything, and can no longer find any common ground. As much as I would like to remain married to you, there comes a time when we must accept reality.


  • I love you. After everything that has gone wrong in our lives, we are closer now than ever before. You make me feel safe, loved, and secure. I couldn’t wish for a better partner for life! I cherish your love more than anything!


  • I will always love you. You are my best friend, my everything and I need you in my life. You showed me what it looks like to be a great husband and father. I love you so much and could not imagine my life without you.


  • I’ve always loved you, even in the darkest times. I believe in you and honor your quest to find redemption. I still believe in our love and will fight to keep it alive. You are mine, body, mind, and soul. I will be there for you until my last breath.


  • My dear, I love you very much. I am sorry for the hurtful things I said to you before, but seriously it is really important for me to be with you now, because without you… life seems so empty and meaningless. But most of all I miss you, baby!


Open Letter to My Husband During Difficult Times

  • You are my heart and soul. I am willing to do anything to protect you. I promise in these next hard times to by your side holding your hand and to be your rock, but most of all to be strong. I will love you through it all and with everything I have. You are everything to me, my love, my life, my hero that I am willing to fight for. I hope our new baby brings peace into our lives instead of agony and pain. Our family needs us.


  • Though life here is difficult, I try to focus on the happy times. We have had many good years and I try not to think about all the painful times. You are everything to me and I know that no matter what, we will always find a way to be together by focusing on all the good ahead of us. Though I am in such pain over the death of our children and our separation, I must cling to those dreams that keep me warm during this time of confusion.


  • I’m here. I’m here and I’m not going anywhere. No matter how many times you push me away or leave, I will always come back to you. We are beyond fixable and all the pieces still fit. It may take time for us to be 100% — but we will get there. I love you and I know in my heart that you love me too.


  • When I married you, I knew that marriage was going to be tough. I didn’t know just how tough it would be and with both of us gone for long periods of time, it gets even tougher.


  • Pay no mind to your friends who tell you I’m not “the One.” I know you love me, but sometimes love isn’t enough to make a relationship work. Please focus on yourself, and your kids, and try to put the past behind you. You and I will always share a wonderful history together, but we moved in different directions a long time ago.


  • I know you are scared. I wish I could take all these fears away and give you a big warm hug. I know you have been battling depression for a long time and would do anything to see a smile on your face again, but it will happen with time. I love you and will always support you through any hurdle that comes our way.


  • I haven’t always been the easiest to live with, but I promise that I’m going to try harder. In fact, I’m going to make a list of all the things you do for me and all the wonderful qualities that you have. When I think of this list, it will help me be more understanding, less complaining and appreciate you more. Let’s both remind ourselves about these things on a regular basis, so life can be a little easier for


  • In times of difficulties, you are my strength. Through good and bad, I know that you will remain my rock. When I’m scared or nervous of what the future holds, your open arms are always there to catch me when I fall. I love you beyond words could ever express, my soul mate and best friend.


  • I am writing this to you as a last resort. As your wife for the past seven years I have loved you passionatly and unconditionally. I married my soul-mate, who understood me better than anyone. Now, I am afraid that I have lost you.


  • My apologies, but I have to ask. Is this really what you want? Are you happy or am I forcing you into something that will only get worse? I know that at times it is confusing, but it is real and we are making things work. If you say no and stop loving me, then I won’t fight, because I don’t want to lose you. I love you my darling. We can fight for happiness together!


  • It’s difficult to find the right words when writing to a person that you hold so dear in your heart. While I’ve told you countless times how much I love and cherish you, sometimes it’s not enough. It’s not enough because words fail to convey just how much those words are truly felt by my heart.


  • I have often seen you cry and heard you wail at the thought that we may get a divorce. At times, I feel that’s how many other people would also see us. As if we are a failure couple on our way out of marriage. I want to tell you that this is not true, never true. The only truth is that there are things in life and in our marriage that are bringing us down at the moment. But I know in my heart and I am confident.


  • I’m writing to you today in an attempt to frame my thoughts, only to find the right words for what I want and need to say. During these past few years I have made a lot of mistakes, not intentionally of course, but we both know that doesn’t make a difference. While you have been my greatest teacher with unconditional love and support, I have been your greatest exam. My transgressions left you broken and angry, but even still you took care of me…


  • We have been together for over a decade now, and we have experienced our share of ups and downs. We have had good times, when we were in love and madly passionate about each other. And we have had bad times, when things hit rock bottom and we really didn’t know if our relationship could survive.


  • I know I’ve been difficult lately. The stress of work, the stress of you not working and me not being able to pay the bills…it’s a lot to handle. But it has nothing to do with you. You are my hero, my rock. You did everything you could to make this work. I’m sorry for making such a big deal out of things. I just want better for us and our children, but I don’t want to take away from your success.


  • It isn’t easy living with pain, however you are strong and you push through the obstacles. I want to take it all away to see your smile again! You mean everything to me!


  • It was a long time ago now, but I remember like it was yesterday. You were so happy to see me and you held me in your arms and we just talked the whole night away. I fell in love with you right then, as my heart melted into yours forever.

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